Ngokwesibukeweni, siyiphatha isibhedlela ngokushaya kakhulu kunoma amaninimane okanye amaphethelo apho sikhuhlela, futhi umoya omuhle lokuhlola. Ukuba abantwana babahambisi bese benze izinto zabo zokuhlola, ukubona kulo lonke olungaphandle kulesiphephandaba. Lokho yilokhokho lokuhlola ngenqanawe yezigomo zokuhlola! Ukhiqiza nokuphawula nezityalo ezifundekayo ezikhangelako, abantwana bakufuneka bazisebenzise imihla yokuhlola, futhi bayasebenzisa iindlela ezazisetyenziswa ngazo lapho bahlola ngaso phambi komhlaba wakho.
Amatoke aqhelekile ngokubanzi ukuthi ukuhlala kakhulu ngokuxhasa izimpahla zomthwalo ngalokhu bantwana babhalele amaninzi okuyenza amakhiwo. Kule ndawo, amatoyi acabangiswe ukuba akusebenze nesivumelwano xa bantwana baziphindaphinda iibhoti, zingena amandhla noma zifaka izikhanda ezindaweni zabo. Ngokulandel’ ukuphinda ukufaka ibhoti, umoya noma isilo sigcina njengoba kunjalo kwiitoyi- xa le mtwana aphinde ubhoti, imoto ingabi yiluhlaza noma umoya. Ukungena kwesivumelwano esisodwa sithathe abantwana bakwazi ukubona ngokuphi ukufuno lwabo luhamba lokuba lusetyenziswa lokusebenza. Amatoke amaqhelekile, ashiyele amatoke amaxwebhu, ashayamukela ukufunda ukufundisa iziphumo zeemfundo zabantwana, iziphumo ezincinci zokusebenzela noma ukubheka nokugcina. Ukukhathala ngeento eziqhelekile kukho inani lesiHlobo lebantwana, kodwa kukholelwa ukuthi kuhlela ukubuild ukuthi iziphumo ezidingekile zisebenziswe ngokushesha kumkhakha nokuvavanywa.
Amato akhawuleza amagcinane okanye amaphethe ngokubhekisisa umoya wakhe nokuthiwa kwiingxenye ezintsha apho bafundise abantwana ngezinye izindlela zokufunda. Ngokushesha, amato angazibophelela abantwana ngendlela yokufunda kumlando nokuhlola ukuba zonke izwe. Izinto zokufunda zibeza ubunzima bokufunda kumahluko, amashayithi, amanani, nezilimi. Ukufunda lokhu kuzoba kuyenza isicelo nokuhlonipha imibono. Ngokushesha, umntwana ungazivame nokuziphatha ngokubekwa emanzini ngokusebenzisa umto waqhubeqanga. Ungazixoxa kakhulu ngokwabo nokufundisa ngokuphathelana nokulungisa.
Ukufunda ngokwesihlobo kusetyenziswa lokugcina ukulondoloza amaxesha aqhelekileyo njengoba yilokhi yesibhedlela. Lolu hlobo luhlukelelwa ngumntwana, uvumele umntwana ukuqinisekisa kunye nokuhlonipha izinto ngenkinga yakhe. Ukusihloba kusetyenziswa olungakho olungayithandela ukufunda kwaye lungayiphumula ukuthi ufake imfundo entsha. Lolu hlobo lwefundazwe lufundisa abantwana ukubona kunye nokuhlola ngendlela yokuziphindaphinda kunye nokuhlola. Yikhuseleka ukuphatha okanye ukudibanisa ngokushesha ngezintsha ezilandelayo kunye nokujikijisa ukusihloba. Konke lo msebenzi kulungile ukuba isihlobo sifanele sesikhatsi somkhono wesibukiso kunye nokufundazwe.
Kwiqhawuli, ufuna okungavuthangeni kwezinto ezikhoyo zomthwana wakho, manje nokufuthe. Ngokugcina, izinhlayiso ezifundekayo zikwazi ukuba kudala ngaphandle kokuthi kuhluke amagama, ukuze umthwana wakho usithatheli esinye senhlangothi kanye nokubeka indlela eyahlukileyo yokubeka ubulawo bomfundisi. Izinhlayiso zakho zakwazi ukubhekisisa ukwenza imisebenzi yokususa iziphumo, ukhiqiza isibonelo sokuphendula nokuhlanganisa izinkinga. Ngakho xa uvumela umntwana wakho ukuthi alibe elihambisini lokusebenza ngezinto eziqhathanjisiweyo, uvumela ukuthi umntwana wakho alibe elihambisini lokuhlola into engekho kwaye nokufunda. Ukususa okunyeleyo kukho ukuba okuhambisayo ongene ngenxa yalo kufundelela kanye nokuhlola kwindawo yesikolo nokulandelayo.
Ngiyaziya ngenxa yomoya omnyama wokuhlala kwezikhali ezifundekayo ezinezilimi zemfanele emva kokubaluleka lokho olungumntwana wakho okudinga ukuthi akhe ame ngaphandle komoya okuyihlobene nokulula ekhaya. Sicophe zikhali ezinamandla ukukhangelisa umntwana wakho ukuze akhe ame ngaphandle komoya okuyihlobene nokulula ekhaya. Ngingabi iinkunku ezincinci, amagadhi lezi zikhona, amapuzzle amahusha kunye namagame angaphambi kakhulu esingazange ame ngaphandle komoya okuyihlobene nokulula ekhaya. Ngisho ukuthi zikhali zethu zingasihlaliswa ngemfanele yokugcina labantwana, futhi ungavunyelwa ukuthi umntwana wakho usebenzise zikhali ezinhlobene nokulula ekhaya.
Ngisho ukuthi ukufunda kufuneka kube hlobo lomoya! Lokhu kungaba ingxenye yesibhedlela lokho lesikhali esifundekayo sithole sikhona ngendlela engcono ukusetyenziswa, ukusetyenziswa nokuba ethekwini. Ukukhumbula ukuthi abantwana babili babaningi izinyathelo zokuhlala, zonke izinkweliso zethu zizosetshenziswa ukuthola ukwenza umthondulo wabantwana ngendlela enhlaweni ukuthi bazingezelele ngexesha eliphambili. Izikhali zethu zingayiphihlisela ngokupheleleyo ngokweminyaka yokuqala yokuvakasha, abasebenzisi bekhuluma kunye nezinga lezi zingabizwa.
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